Q&A: Andrew Stirrup on DISC, Emotional Intelligence, and Behaviour Change at Work

Andrew Stirrup, leadership and behavioural specialist and Discflow Certification facilitator

Andrew Stirrup works with leadership teams, boards, and business owners to shape workplace cultures that drive performance. For over 15 years, he has helped clients across elite sport, SMEs, and corporate environments close the gap between intention and action. Alongside his consulting work, Andrew delivers the Discflow Certification Course, supporting practitioners to apply DISC and Emotional Intelligence with clarity, confidence, and practical impact.

For those new to Discflow, how would you explain the combination of DISC and Emotional Intelligence in simple terms?

DISC explains how we behave. Emotional Intelligence explains how aware and intentional we are about that behaviour. DISC shows us our natural behavioural preferences: how we approach problems; how we communicate; how we respond to pace, people, pressure, and priorities. Emotional Intelligence adds something else, something crucial: do I recognise what I’m doing, do I notice how it’s landing with others, and how best to adapt in any given situation.

DISC can be a little static, especially if it’s trained poorly, and EI can sometimes be viewed as a bit abstract or overly introspective. But by combining them together, it helps people to show up differently on a day-to-day basis and helps to develop behavioural choice.

In your experience, what misconceptions do people have about DISC assessments, and how does Discflow address them?

“DISC puts people in boxes.”

This usually comes from poor facilitation, not the tool itself. Discflow makes it very clear that everyone uses all four styles and your DISC profile shows preference, not competence or capability. And very importantly, behaviour is flexible, especially with improved awareness. Discflow’s approach to Emotional Intelligence helps to reinforce that we’re not prisoners of our profile.

“DISC tells me who I am.”

It doesn’t. Some people think DISC is a one-size-fits-all view of a person. But DISC describes what you tend to do under certain conditions, not your values, motivations, or identity. Discflow addresses this by separating behaviour from intent and exploring how stress, pressure, and environment can shift a person’s behaviour. It encourages reflection rather than self-justification.

“Once I know my style, the work is done.”

This is ‘shelf development’, not self-development, and where many tools fall short. They provide feedback but don’t encourage action, so people forget about it. Discflow is designed to be a development tool, not a one-off insight. Something you return to in conversations, feedback, and decision-making.

What are the most common workplace challenges that Discflow reports help solve?

The challenges organisations bring to me are quite consistent, irrespective of sector.

The most common ones are:

1. Communication breakdowns
Not because people don’t care, but because they communicate from their own default style and assume others see the world the same way.

2. Leadership inconsistency
Many leaders get promoted for results, but not necessarily for the relational impact they have.

Discflow highlights how leaders behave under pressure, the gap between intent and impact, and where Emotional Intelligence needs to be developed.

3. Team friction and unspoken tension
The reports give teams a neutral language to explore where they are similar and different, and permission to discuss behavioural tension safely.

4. Poor follow-through and accountability
Discflow helps clarify who drives action, who needs structure, and where hand-offs break down.Used well, this dramatically improves execution.

How do you see teams using their results most effectively after a workshop or programme?

The difference is never about intelligence or goodwill. It comes down to intentional application.

Teams that get long-term value:

  • Refer to Discflow language in meetings
  • Use profiles in feedback conversations
  • Revisit reports during change, conflict, or growth phases
  • Have leaders who model adaptation first

Teams that don’t treat the workshop as “done”, file the reports away, or use DISC as shorthand labels. Culture doesn’t change because people know their profile. It changes because people choose to behave differently when it matters.

What makes someone an effective DISC practitioner or facilitator?

The most effective DISC practitioners don’t start with the model; they start with curiosity, respect for people, and a passion to help them grow.

The key mindset is this:
“My job isn’t to explain DISC. My job is to help people see themselves and each other more clearly.”

Discflow works best when it’s facilitated, not delivered.

What do new trainers often find most challenging when delivering their first DISC session?

The biggest challenge new trainers face is the fear of getting it “wrong.” They worry about explaining the model perfectly, being challenged by participants, or not having an answer to every question. You don’t need to be the expert in the room; the profiles are central to the process. Your role is to ask good questions, invite reflection, and help participants connect insight to real situations.

How has your own DISC style influenced the way you teach and lead?

I’m naturally high in Dominance and Influence, which means I bring energy, pace, and enthusiasm into groups. The real learning for me has been recognising that those strengths can easily fill the space, sometimes too much, and that they need to be managed consciously rather than relied on automatically. It’s made me a more thoughtful facilitator and leader, and more honest with myself about where my strengths need to be managed rather than relied upon.

How do you see the future of behavioural tools, especially with the rise of AI?

As AI takes on more technical, analytical, and process-driven work, human behaviour and effective leadership become an even bigger differentiator. Behavioural tools will need to evolve from static assessments and one-off workshops into ongoing development frameworks, embedded behavioural language, and tools that support reflection and adaptation in real time. Discflow is well placed for this future because it focuses on how humans show up, not just what they know.

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Sarah Mitchell

Senior HR Consultant & Workplace Culture Expert
Sarah has over 15 years of experience helping organizations build better workplaces through behavioral insights and cultural transformation. She specializes in applying DISC methodology to improve team dynamics and leadership effectiveness.

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